A lot of people go about telling everyone who cares to listen about their marriages; they complain bitterly about their spouses and barely have anything good to say about their marriage.
I have five reasons why you should stop that today:
1. MARRIAGE IS SACRED
A marriage isn’t a relationship and shouldn’t be taken thus; while a relationship is just a mere agreement to be with someone, a marriage is way deeper than that. A marriage is a covenant, an oath and a vow; those words you say on your wedding day aren’t mere words, they are vows. So, never treat your marriage as if it’s just a mere relationship.
2. YOU COULD MAKE YOURSELF A LAUGHING STOCK/ CENTRE OF GOSSIP
Be careful of who you talk to about your marital issues, because a lot of the times, you make yourself a laughing-stock and a centre of gossip even among your peers, family, friends and neighbours.
3. YOU WORSEN THE WAY YOU FEEL
You can never talk bad about your marriage and feel good, because you’re part of that marriage. You’d only worsen the way you feel when you talk bad about your marriage; it’ll never make you happy in any way.
4. YOU WORSEN THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE WITH YOUR PARTNER
The relationship you have with your partner will continue to deteriorate if you keep talking bad about your partner. You’d only worsen the relationship you have with each other, because your action will bring bitterness in both your hearts.
5. YOUR SPOUSE IS THE BEST PERSON TO TALK TO
The best person to talk to about your marriage is your partner. If a lot of people can know how to communicate with their partners, then they’d solve over 75% of the troubles they are having.
Stop telling everyone about your marriage, stop talking bad about your marriage and partner and start trying to make things work. Start saying positive things and start seeing your marriage with a positive eye.
Shawn