People often make that mistake of thinking that s*x can solve the problems in their relationship. The only problem in that relationship that s*x can solve are only s*x related problems; no more, no less.
Using s*x to solve other problems is like taking a malaria pill when you have typhoid; it’s like taking the wrong prescription really. When the problem of that relationship is communication, s*x can only do little to solve that problem; people misplace priorities in relationship.
Check below to know these reasons
1. THE PROBLEM STILL LINGERS ON
The simple truth is, that problem would still linger. Sometimes all your man just needs from you is your listening ears; if you give him s*x, it won’t solve anything. Sometimes all your lady just needs is for you to show her that you value her over all others, and such problems are way too intimate for s*x to solve.
2. S*X WON’T CHANGE YOU
Yea, s*x won’t even come close to changing that man or that lady, not even a little. When your man has anger problems or your lady is the type that nags at the slightest instance, s*x won’t do anything to change that person, not even the slightest bit, such issues need way more than s*x.
3. S*X WOULD JUST BE A MEANS TO AN END
When s*x is the major thing you want to use then it would just be a means to an end, of which the end is just the satisfaction of your urge. And when couples in a relationship get to this point where the only reason for s*x is for the satisfaction of urge, then the passion of that relationship would just keep going down and down like a candle flame.
4. S*X MIGHT EVEN BECOME TIRING
If s*x is disguised as a relationship solver, after a while s*x would become tiring and once s*x becomes tiring, what then is the last straw? S*x is no magic, if you keep on having s*x with no attachment, no love and no passion, then it might become tiring and boring, and that may just make the relationship end even on a worse note.
5. S*X MIGHT JUST BE A ROUTINE
When you have s*x just for s*x sake, it might then turn to be just a routine; it would be so ordinary and lose its worth. Don’t put the weight on your relationship troubles on s*x. Let s*x be borne out of love and passion, when s*x becomes an ordinary routine, the passion from s*x might just get lost forever.
The key is, if your relationship is having troubles, just tackle it than looking for a shorter alternative. Don’t shy away from your relationship problems; face them when it starts early before it escalates to something worse.
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