This post is not in any way intended to give you a complete understanding of women and their general attitude towards men, no! That is not the idea. No one can fully understand another, so it would be fallacious of me to pretend like I do; however, that doesn’t mean that we cannot try.
As complex as humans are, if you study them closely, you can get a grip of a few things about them. Women are not exempted from this. As complicated as they seem, they too can be understood to an extent if we pay some attention — maybe not everything about them, but definitely the recurring ones. As a man in a relationship (not necessarily dating) with a woman, there are things she does / has done that you always find it difficult to give suiting explanation to, but not to worry, because we’ll be taking a look at 5 of those things in this post. So, please, read on.
1. SHE ASKS FOR MORE THAN YOU CAN AFFORD
If you’re in a relationship with a woman who seems to ask for too much money and material stuff, there are 2 possible reasons for this. Firstly, if the habit is new to her, then, the reason she would suddenly behave that way is perhaps because she has found another man, and wants to dump you. Women usually adopt the ‘over-demanding’ tactic when they’re tired of a relationship and want to quit. The second reason a woman would ask for too much money off her man is if she has kept a lot of bad company, and is being pressured into such.
2. SHE LEAVES HER PERSONAL STUFF IN YOUR APARTMENT (HOUSE)
If she visits, and on her way home, she leaves some of her personal stuff, like underwear, clothing, and makeup, the reason for this is possibly because she is thinking long-term for your relationship, and indirectly wants to spend more days at your place or gradually move in with you. She knows that you may refuse if she asked to move in with you, so she’d rather go about it stylishly.
3. SHE GETS MAD OVER QUESTIONS REGARDING HER PAST
If you ask her questions about her past life and relationship(s), and her mood suddenly changes, it is probably because there’s something that happened in her past life that makes her feel sad, probably a bad breakup or another sad experience, so she just doesn’t want to talk about it because it brings sadness to her mind. If she gets mad about questions regarding her past, it could also be because she is trying to hide something from you.
4. SHE TALKS ABOUT OTHER MEN TO (WITH) YOU
So you guys are very close, and you like her very much, but she sometimes raises topics of other men when you’re together? Two things may be responsible for this sort of attitude — either she really likes you a lot, and is trying to make you jealous/ scare you into quickly asking her out, or she simply, truly has another man in her life, and is trying to make that message very clear to you.
5. SHE DATES YOU ON AND OFF
Sometimes, the reason why women are not steady in their decision to date one man may be because they have other men in their lives that they also like, but they do not want to lose you either, so they keep going back and forth. It could also be an attitude engineered by friends who don’t like you.
So, there it is guys, I hope this helps you understand your woman better than you do now.
Drama