Is it really possible to predict if marrying him/her would end up in a failed marriage? While there is no method that guarantees 100% accuracy when predicting the success of a marriage, there are 4 signs that show a marriage is doomed to fail even before it begins.
Check them out below
1. DENY RESPONSIBILITIES AND MAKE EXCUSES DURING ARGUMENTS
If you are in a relationship where either you or your partner have this attitude of always being too defensive during arguments, that’s a huge sign your relationship might crash if you get married. Couples who are always defensive during arguments find it difficult to get issues solved in their relationship. You always tend to hear phrases like “if you hadn’t done this, I wouldn’t have done that …” from defensive couples. If you want your marriage to work, this attitude of always being defensive shouldn’t be in your relationship.
2. YOU ALWAYS GIVE YOUR PARTNER THE SILENT TREATMENT
Giving your partner the silent treatment instead of addressing the issue in your relationship can cause a great amount of emotional distance in a relationship. Ladies are guiltier of giving their partner the silent treatment when they are unhappy about something. When you give your partner the silent treatment, you will totally shutdown and withdraw yourself from your partner emotionally and physically. You are most likely to use the silent treatment after a misunderstanding with your partner as you aim to avoid another argument or conflict but the truth is while you try to avoid another conflict by using the silent treatment, you end up creating a bigger one as you make your partner feel ignored, shunned and disconnected.
3. YOU ALWAYS CRITICISE YOUR PARTNER
Your marriage is doomed to fail even before starting if you always bring down your partner with constant criticism. When you always seek to tear down your partner by focusing only on his or her faults instead of helping your partner learn from his/her mistake by correcting him/her in a loving way, your marriage is doomed to fail. Positive criticism corrects with love and understanding while negative criticism isn’t constructive as it attacks your partner’s character and personality.
4. YOU SEE YOUR PARTNER AS INFERIOR
Your marriage is doomed to fail from the beginning if you see your partner as inferior. Your marriage might crash sooner rather than later if you see yourself as better-looking, more intelligent and more hardworking than your partner. Your marriage can’t succeed if you believe you are superior to your partner and you always have this habit of looking down on your partner. A marriage can only succeed when both partners treat each other with respect and love.
Unless you work on these traits in your relationship, your marriage might just be doomed to fail even before it started.
Phil