So many ladies can testify to having dated an immature guy. By immaturity I don’t even mean age; immaturity could be in terms of temperament, behaviour and attitude and all manner of things.
Dating an immature guy could be frustrating, and most times a guy might not even know he’s acting immature. Guys ought to know that they should respect their ladies at all times, most especially when you both are out.
I bring you 4 immature things all guys shouldn’t do to their ladies, especially in public.
1. DON’T SHOUT AT HER
I wonder why guys do this. What do you prove by doing this? On countless occasions I’ve seen guys shout at their ladies even when they are out in public. That is such a barbaric act, you should show that lady some respect, and shouting at her in public would not only disgrace yourself but her as well. Funny enough it might even be something very little that would make a guy shout at a lady. You should treat your lady like an egg, she’s supposed to be your jewel; if you won’t treat her as such then don’t date her.
2. DON’T HIT HER
Now this is stupid; if shouting at her is bad enough then this is beyond terrible. I’ve seen so many relationships where the guy doesn’t just hit his lady but he hits her even when they are hanging out. I don’t know the exact words to use to describe this act; this doesn’t show you’re a man in any way, it only shows immaturity. Why beat someone else’s daughter, its immature and stupid. Like they say where I come from, beating your lady just shows your mom didn’t bring you up well.
3. DON’T DISREGARD HER IN FRONT OF YOUR PEERS
One sure thing every guy ought to know is that the way you treat your lady is the same way your pal would treat her. The value you place on her is the same value your friends would place on her too. It would be bad when you disregard her and your friends do same too. If you value that lady treat her well or else someone else will.
4. DON’T FLIRT
Guys tend to do this even when with their lady but I see it as disrespectful. Flirting or trying to flirt when with another lady is a pretty awful thing to do. Whether she notices or doesn’t notice doesn’t matter, just give her that respect and make her feel that she’s your queen if she really is. Flirting with another lady when you’re out with your lady is an immature thing to do.
When you don’t act mature when you out with your lady, it wouldn’t bode well for that relationship. One question people fail to ask themselves is, why go out with a lady if you won’t really care about her.
S.O.Z