11 RELATIONSHIP TRUTHS YOU SHOULDN’T FORGET

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Some truths are inevitable; ignoring them is only at your own risk. Sometimes in relationships, there are no definite rules to live by; what might work for Mr A might not work for you. In cases like these, you have to find out what’s ideal for you and your relationship.

However, there are some relationship truths that shouldn’t be forgotten also. A lot of people try to ignore some of these relationship truths, but it doesn’t really turn out well.

These are some of those easy to forget relationship truths that you should never forget.

1. NOT EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE

Second chances should only be given to people who deserve it, and not everyone deserves a second chance in your life. If your partner hurts you or has done something terrible to break your heart, think twice before you give such a partner a second chance. To some, giving them another chance is only another opportunity to break your heart again.

2. THERE IS NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

Forget what you see in movies, a perfect relationship would be the last wonder of the world. Your search for a perfect relationship would ruin a great relationship that you have. Stop having fantasies and start facing reality. A perfect relationship is one without blemish; a relationship where mistakes aren’t made — one where everything works perfectly every day. Is this really possible?

Don’t throw away a great relationship in your quest for a perfect relationship.

3. EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES

It’s easy to see yourself as superhuman and only see the flaws in your partner. But everyone makes mistakes; there is no perfect human being. Everyone makes mistakes — never forget that.

4. NEVER BRING YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIP INTO YOUR NEW ONE

This is a relationship truth that a lot of people are too quick to forget. If your past relationship was too good, you would still be in it till now. Don’t use the standards set by your past partner on your new partner; people are different and unique in their own way.

5. NOTHING IS TOO LITTLE TO APPRECIATE

This is another relationship truth people take for granted or quickly forget. Stop feeling that what your partner did is so little to say “thank you”. You should say thank you for everything your partner does for you — whether big or little.

6. YOUR RELATIONSHIP SHOULDN’T BE A COMPETITION

Your relationship can never grow if it’s treated like a competition; this is one truth you must never forget. Stop having rivalry with your partner; you two should form a unit and never be in competition, because at the end of the day, it’s the relationship that suffers.

7. TREAT YOUR PARTNER HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED

This is another easy to forget relationship truth. A lot of people place emphasis on their partners that they forget about their own roles. If you want respect, respect your partner; if you want care, show your partner care. Treat your partner just how you want to be treated.

8. FORGIVENESS ISN’T REALLY FOR YOUR PARTNER

You might think that you do your partner a favour when you forgive them; but sometimes forgiveness isn’t just for your partner alone, forgiveness is for yourself. You release anger, hate and a lot of burden from your heart when you forgive.

9. SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS DON’T WORK JUST LIKE THAT

Successful relationships don’t really work just like that; they require work and commitment. But people often forget this; people expect their relationships to work just like that.

10. YOU SHOULDN’T BEG SOMEONE TO BE IN YOUR LIFE

You cheat and undervalue yourself when you beg someone to be in your life. Begging someone to be in your life is like opening yourself to be treated anyhow that person wants.

11. YOU LIFE WOULD BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT CERTAIN PEOPLE

Your life would be so much better without certain people in it; not everyone that comes into your life deserves to stay. And this relationship truth should never be forgotten.

 

These relationship truths are easy to forget, but they shouldn’t be forgotten.

Shawn   

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