Overtime, I’ve noticed that a man spends more money on what he values; who or what he spends his money on shows where his heart actually lays. This reminds me of a popular verse of the Bible which says “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also”.
Most women fall victim of being with a man who profess love to them but would rather not spend a dime on them, even if he has the resources to. Watch out who or what those kind of men spend their money on — other women, hookers, clubs and the rest of it.
Even some wives aren’t totally valued by their husbands; the man would spend quite a lot on other women or other things but would baulk at his primary responsibility of taking care of his wife. These kinds of men would come up with all manner of lies and excuses just so he can spend his money on other things he deem necessary.
However, when a man loves his lady, she comes first no matter how little his earnings are, he just wants to please her with the little he can. Also, there is somehow a twist to this as regards men; when a man has so much, he can actually spend a few (which might seem like much to you) just to get what he wants, and this doesn’t in any way show that he cares about you.
Women also get it wrong as regards this; it’s true that every lady would blush and love a man who can shower her with gift items on her birthday, give her treats like she’s a queen even on a normal day and treat her like a princess on a Valentine’s day, but that doesn’t mean you should judge a man according to what another man spends on his lady. A man can spend $6000 on his lady while another would spend $600 on his lady, but the man spending the $600 could actually be the one who values his lady more. So at the end of a day it isn’t just by how much he has spent but how much he has spent from what he has. The man spending $6000 might have millions at his disposal while the other man with $600 could probably be unable to cough out $3000.
At the end of the day, it boils down to the man’s desire and commitment. How much does your man really spend on you? Not just in money but in time as well.
ViV