I was recently asked by a friend if I would be jealous seeing my lady hug another guy, and with all honesty I replied “no”. I really don’t see anything much in a hug; after all I also hug other ladies who might also have a serious relationship. To me hug symbolizes friendship, care and everything that goes with friendship. So the fact she’s my lady doesn’t mean she won’t have friends; I just have to respect that.
But then my friend told me there is a hug that’s more than a hug, and what if it’s the hug that’s more than a hug. Now that got me startled; “so there is a hug that’s more than a hug?” I asked myself. He then said some hug reveals so many unseen things, flirting among them, as well as intimacy.
From our discussion I was able to learn something, people pay loads of attention to so many unnecessary things in a relationship and that’s why longevity is no longer something that can be easily achieved, and break up is the new make-up. A hug to me is just nothing; for goodness sake the guy didn’t enter her pants, it’s just a mere hug and nothing; when you see something worse, you can take it personal, but as far as it’s a hug then there is nothing wrong.
If you trust your woman or your man then such things are way too flimsy to cause any sort of problems in that relationship. If you take such things personal then it shows that you either don’t trust your woman or you’re immature or just backward; it just has to be one of them. There is nothing wrong if your lady has a special friend or if your man has a friend too; as far as there is no boundaries crossed and they are open about their friendship, then there should be no cause for alarm.
It’s better not to be in a relationship than to be in a relationship with a man or a lady you don’t trust. Taking a mere hug seriously just shows that you don’t have trust in that person. Don’t be in a relationship that would make your heart jump, but if you trust that special somebody then don’t let anything come between you guys.
Shawn