Every relationship should be unique in its own way and a unique relationship is mostly the one that encompasses conscious and subconscious traits of both partners and merges them to form a seamless unit.
A relationship where uniqueness or something special exists would stand the test of time; such a relationship would usually have something that would push it forward even when the chips are down. So it’s really important to have that ‘unique something’ in your relationship.
What could you really point out as the unique thing in your relationship? What might be unique differs from relationship to relationship, so you don’t have to look at another relationship for assessment.
When you and your partner are so in love with each other and can’t stay a minute apart then that’s a unique thing. When you and your partner are best of friends and have lots of fun together then that’s a unique thing. When you and your partner have a seamless understanding then that’s a unique thing. When you and your partner love to do things together then that’s a unique thing. When you and your partner are faithful to each other or even have an awesome sex life then that’s a unique thing.
A unique thing could be anything; it could even be outside the tips I mentioned above. It could be something that makes you love your partner the more; it could be that you guys tell each other everything or joke about so many things — it could be anything.
What makes some relationships stifle out most times is because they don’t have a unique thing that would make them stand the test of time. Having a unique thing would only help you and your partner bond the more and it’s totally healthy for your relationship.
So what’s the unique thing in your relationship?
Shawn