Ladies, if you love your husband and want a happy marriage, there are certain compromises you shouldn’t demand from your husband. Certain expectations are unhealthy for your marriage.
Below are things no wife should ask of her husband
1. ASK YOUR HUSBAND TO GIVE UP HIS DREAMS
In a healthy marriage, both partners are expected to be supportive of each other’s dreams and passions. As a wife, you should never ask your husband to give up on his dreams. You should instead help him understand that he always has your support.
2. MAKE HIM CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND HIS MOTHER
Some wives put their husbands in situations where he has to literally choose between her and his mother. This is wrong. You are your man’s number one priority but you should also understand that his mother deserves some respect. If you have issues with his mother, talk to him about it in private and make sure you don’t put him in a situation where he has to choose.
3. ASK HIM TO QUIT HIS FRIENDS
It’s wrong as a wife to ask your husband to stop hanging out with his friends. I understand you want to spend good time with your man but it’s important in a healthy marriage that we also spend time with friends.
4. ASK HIM TO HAVE SIMILAR INTEREST AS YOU
It’s wrong and unfair to expect your husband to like everything you enjoy doing. What you should do as a couple is enjoy the similar interests you both share together and also enjoy the different interests you both have individually. Don’t expect your husband to like everything you like.
5. EXPECT YOUR HUSBAND TO CHANGE
You knew about his qualities before you agreed to marry him so it will be unfair for you to ask him to change after marriage. If you know you can’t tolerate your partner’s flaws, never marry that person. You are who you are and your husband is who he is. Expecting the other to change will cause great friction in your marriage.
Phil