So many first dates have gone so bad that the lady didn’t even bother for a second date. An okay first date is the one where everything goes on fine and there is a high possibility of a second date. However, a successful first date is the one where chemistry and connection was built. If you have a chemistry with her on the first date then you are almost within touching distance of winning her heart — you are just one step away to be precise.
So how then do you know that you have chemistry with her on the first date?
1. YOUR CONVERSATIONS KEPT FLOWING
Good chemistry is built on conversation or communication. How was your conversation with her? How did she respond?
If your conversation with her was smooth and you both had a good time talking and listening to each other, then you have struck a good connection with her.
2. SHE COULDN’T STOP SMILING
The story of a woman’s first date is all written in her smiles. Normally, she would want to be calm and reserved on the first date, study you more and try to know more about your kind of person.
But if you could get her smiling all through the date, then you have won a huge part of her heart — and that’s where the chemistry begins.
3. HER EYES
The eyes are the window of your soul, you must have heard, and in reality, a woman’s eyes could tell just how much she feels. From the way she stares at you, to the way her pupils dilate could be a sign that she has fallen for your charm and you have built a connection with her.
4. YOU MADE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE
Making a woman feel comfortable with you is probably the biggest challenge in having a successful first date, and if you can achieve this, it shows you have built a connection with her.
5. HER HAIR
There is something about women and fondling their hair when they are with a man they are falling for.
If she keeps fondling with her hair while on the date, with that accompanying shy smile that follows suit, then it’s a sign that a good chemistry and connection have been built.
6. SHE LAUGHED AT YOUR JOKES
Making a lady feel comfortable on the first date is one thing, making her smile is another, but making her laugh shows that you’ve taken her out of her shell and you have made her feel at ease with you. If you get her laughing continually on the first date, it only goes on to show how much chemistry you have built with her.
7. YOU HAVE THIS CONNECTION THAT WASN’T JUST SEXUAL
A lot of men try to go for a sexual connection with a woman right from the first date, but a gentleman doesn’t.
Chemistry on the first date can be felt between both partners; when you have this strong feeling that thrills you — it isn’t sexual, it feels a lot like love, but you aren’t sure if it’s love — when you both have such a feeling, then that’s chemistry.
Chemistry isn’t always built on the first date; sometimes, it could take three, four or even five dates to build chemistry.
These signs above show that you and your date have built something special on the first date — chemistry.
ShawnÂ