So I saw a post that caught my attention on social media the other day, and it got me thinking — could it really be true? It was more or less a statement and it said, ‘dating is collecting information about someone, until you realise you don’t like them.’ As I read that statement, I couldn’t help, but think how true it is. I couldn’t help but think about how many times I’ve been in that situation. How many times I’ve thought I liked someone in the start, but eventually got tired mid way into that relationship because I saw something about them I didn’t like. I am not the only one who has been in this position, I know people who have too. Just as I have been in the receiving end.
The point I’m trying to make is that sometimes, we quit our relationship not because we really want to hurt or break a heart, but because we discovered something unpleasant about our partner, and you can’t really blame people. There are a lot of pretentious and fake folks out there, who don’t show you their true self in the beginning. They first front who they aren’t to impress you, forgetting that you will find out eventually, and it wouldn’t turn out well for them if you do.
Moral of this post is — it’s good to always be yourself in a relationship from day one. Don’t fake anything; be yourself. If they’ll like you, let it be for the real you, and nothing else, so mid way through your relationship they don’t suddenly realise they’ve been with the wrong person all along, and quit. It’s still not a guarantee, I know, but it’s better this way, I think.
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