Most guys look for the wrong qualities when choosing a partner these days. It’s nice dating a pretty woman no doubt but beauty shouldn’t be your priority in a woman.
If you meet a woman with the qualities in this list, never let her go or you might end up regretting tomorrow.
Below are 7 signs your girlfriend is a keeper
1. SHE TRUSTS YOU
Guys, never leave joke with a woman who trusts you. Bad experiences have made lots of women quit trusting guys, so if you meet a woman who still trusts you, she’s a keeper. Lack of trust in a relationship can be very harmful to that relationship. So if your girlfriend trusts you, make sure you keep her and ensure you don’t break that trust.
2. SHE KNOWS HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR ANGER
Guys who have anger issues shouldn’t use this as excuse. If you have anger issues, you need to work on it.
We are humans and sometimes it’s natural we would get angry. If you have a girlfriend who knows how to deal with you when you are angry, she’s a keeper. While most ladies would worsen the situation, a keeper knows how to calm things. If your girlfriend has this quality, you’ve got to keep her.
3. SHE’S TOUGH ON YOU WHEN YOU ARE LAZY
Sometimes as men, we just think about now and act like tomorrow doesn’t exist. We procrastinate when we can actually do those things now. A girlfriend who is a keeper won’t want to see you acting lazy. She’d push your lazy ass and make sure you are useful to yourself. She won’t take excuses from you for not doing what you are supposed to do now. If you are to submit your CV today, she would ensure you do that.
For most guys, having a woman like this is annoying but the truth is that she’s looking out for you. She wants you to have a better future and doesn’t want you wasting your time on things that won’t benefit you. If you have a girlfriend like this, she is a keeper.
4. SHE RESPECTS YOUR FAMILY
A girl who treats your family like her family and respects your family is a keeper. Never let her go no matter what or you might regret it tomorrow.
So many ladies out there treat their man’s family like plague and have no respect for his family. They try to put their man in a situation where he has to choose between her or his family.
A woman who is a keeper won’t make you choose between her and your family. She will love and respect your family too.
5. SHE FORGIVES YOUR BULLSH*T
This isn’t an excuse to misbehave and expect your woman to always forgive your bullsh*t. No woman should do that.
But if you know you have done some terrible things in the past that really hurt her and she still forgave your bullsh*t, never let her go. A woman who is a keeper is patient and understanding and if you know your girlfriend has these qualities, never let her go.
6. SHE SPOILS YOU WITH HER OWN MONEY
I just had to add this to the list. I have observed that many ladies today don’t spend a dime on their man but they always expect he spends on them. This attitude is so wrong.
I insist every man spoils his woman with gifts regularly as this helps spice the relationship and I also expect the ladies to reciprocate.
So guys, if your girlfriend knows how to spoil you with her own money, that girl has a sweet heart and is surely a keeper.
7. SHE BELIEVES IN YOU
The fact that she chose to be with you and believes in you means she’s a keeper. If she believes you have what it takes to be great tomorrow and she always inspires you to push and never give up, that girl is a keeper.
Phil