We all have definitely been in that situation in which an ex has asked for a second chance. There’s really no point going back to an ex most times but sometimes going back to an ex has resulted in stronger relationships.
Here are 5 things you must consider before giving her a second chance
1. THE REASON FOR THE BREAKUP
Before considering going back to an ex, you need to consider the reason why the relationship ended. Did you break up over a petty issue or something that you couldn’t overlook?
2. WHY DOES SHE WANT YOU BACK?
This is another important factor you should consider before taking her back. Demand a clear reason why she wants you back. If she’s coming back because her current relationship failed, that isn’t a good reason to consider dating her again.
3. WHAT WAS IT LIKE DATING HER?
Before considering taking her back, you need to consider how serious the both of you were before the breakup. If you spent most times fighting each other, there’s no point even thinking of a make up.
4. DO YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER?
Do you still crave for her and secretly wish for her to come back or have you moved on and already forgotten about her? If you have moved on, there’s no point thinking about a second chance.
5. CAN YOU TRUST HER AGAIN?
Do you think you can trust her again? If the reason for breaking up was because she cheated on you, do you think you can trust her again? Trust is an important ingredient in every relationship and if you know you would find it difficult trusting her again, there’s no point giving her a second chance.
Phil