Marriage is one word that scares lots of guys. If any of the signs in this list applies to you, then it’s time you changed how you look at marriage.
Below are 10 signs you are ready for marriage
1. YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A PARTNER
Once upon a time, your friends called you sharp-shooter because you chased every lady you came across as long as she is pretty. These days, you seem to be a different man and you can actually define the values and traits that matter to you in a woman. It’s about quality to you when it comes to choosing a partner and not quantity.
2. YOU KNOW WHY YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED
You are not ready for marriage if all that appeals you about marriage is the cute tuxedos, the wedding ceremony or just because your friends are getting married. You know you are ready for marriage if you really want to spend the rest of your life with her.
3. YOU SEE YOUR PARTNER IN YOUR FUTURE
You know you are ready to get married if when you think of your future, she is part of it. When you talk about the future with her, you use “when” as opposed to “if”. You find yourself saying “when we get married…” as opposed to “if we get married…”.
4. YOU HAVE A DEEP RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER
You know you are ready for marriage if you have a deep relationship with your partner. You have a relationship that has gone through challenges but the both of you went through it together.
5. GETTING MARRIED NOW APPEALS TO YOU
Guys naturally don’t dream about getting married as ladies do. So when watching other guys propose now appeals to you and you now imagine yourself doing that, then you are ready to get married.
6. YOU KNOW YOUR PARTNER
How much do you really know your partner? This is really important before considering marriage. You should know all about your partner and still love partner even after knowing your partner’s past.
7. YOU ARE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER WHEN IT COMES TO FINANCE
You have no business getting married if you and your partner aren’t honest with each other when it comes to finance. If you see still see the subject of finance as a no-go area, then you aren’t ready to get married. You know you are ready to get married if you are honest with each other when it comes to finance.
8. YOU RESOLVE CONFLICTS TOGETHER
You aren’t ready for marriage if you still think forgetting issues is the best way to solve problems. Any problem that isn’t thrashed now will come up later. Your ability to resolve conflicts shows how ready you are for marriage.
9. YOU DON’T HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER
If you still have doubts about your partner’s feelings for you, you aren’t ready for marriage just yet. You know you are ready for marriage if you no longer have doubts about your partner. You know you are ready for marriage if you don’t worry about what your partner is doing when she isn’t around.
10. YOU HAVE NO DESIRE TO GO BACK TO AN EX
If you still have the desire to go back to an ex, then you aren’t ready to get married yet. You know you are ready to get married when you are much happier in the present and have absolutely no desire to go back to an ex.
Phil