Most women complain about the lack of real men in the world today but the question I always ask is “Are you a woman or a girl?”
The reason why I ask women that question is because no real man goes after a girl. A real man goes after a mature woman. So if you still behave like a girl, expect immature guys to come your way.
Guys, below are 10 signs you are dating a girl and not a mature woman
1. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend can’t make decisions on her own. Mature women know how to make their own decisions while girls are unable to make a decision without consulting daddy or her friends.
2. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend lies, steals and cheats. Mature women are not scared of commitment but immature girls lie and believe cheating is acceptable as long as no one finds out.
3. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend is an attention freak whose self-esteem is dependent on the opinion of others. A mature woman doesn’t need the validation of others to know her worth.
4. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend constantly talks about an ex and always tends to compare you with her ex. A mature woman knows an ex should be kept in the past and she never compares her man to an ex.
5. You are definitely dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend doesn’t have her priorities sorted out. An immature girl lavishes her money on brands and is always broke while a mature woman knows her priorities and spends wisely.
6. You are definitely dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend believes going to numerous parties and twerking is living the life. A mature woman has better things to do with her time.
7. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend always wants to be with the crowd and always dreads missing out. Mature women don’t go with the crowd, they actually stand out from the crowd.
8. You are dating a girl and not a mature woman if your girlfriend expects you to be there for her always but is never there for you. Mature women know the importance of being there for their man when he needs her.
9. You are dating a girl and not a woman if your girlfriend uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A mature woman knows her worth is beyond her physical beauty. She is intelligent, has integrity and mental strength.
10. You are dating a girl and not a woman if your girlfriend sees you as her ATM. A mature woman has her own money. She sees a man with his own money as a bonus and not her ATM.
Phil