It’s rare to see a woman who doesn’t have mood swings; while it’s at different levels in different women, mood swings are only normal in women, and some of those mood swings come with hormonal changes.
Read this article to know why your lady experiences mood swings.
Now, this is how to handle a woman experiencing mood swings.
1. DON’T GET FRUSTRATED
Don’t let frustration come in when she’s having one of those mood swings. You need to be composed and comport yourself no matter what; being frustrated will only worsen matters.
2. DON’T SAY ANYTHING THAT COULD BE MISINTERPRETED
It’s easy for her to misinterpret and add extra meaning to something you say when she’s having a mood swing. At this point, she’s not thinking rationally and is looking to pick a fight — so watching your words is very important to maintain the peace.
3. UNDERSTAND THAT IT ISN’T HER AT THE MOMENT
You have to understand that the mood swing wouldn’t last forever; it will pass within a short time, so need to get too worried or worked up.
4. IF YOU CAN’T HANDLE IT, LEAVE
It’s important to keep your calm when she’s having a mood swing, as any wrong thing you say or do can escalate things. So if you can’t keep calm, it’s better you leave her alone at that moment; it could even make her feel guilty and turn around quickly.
5. IT WILL PASS
Surely, it will pass; her sour mood won’t last forever, so it’s important to have this at the back of your mind always, so you don’t overreact.
6. APPEASE HER: After all has been said and done, you can try to get her off that mood by appeasing her with something she likes. Of course every woman loves to be appeased, and if it doesn’t change her mood immediately, it will do in no time.
7. LOVE HER
In spite of the mood swing and everything, love her; show her that you care about her in both the good and bad times.
8.FIND OUT
Try to find out why she’s having that bad mood, because sometimes her mood swings could be as a result of what you did or didn’t do. So try to find out; if she doesn’t tell you at point, ask her when she’s much calmer.
Every woman experiences mood swings, just that it’s at different levels and frequency with each woman. So try to be the man who can understand women and know how to handle their mood swings.
ViV