You can build a happy marriage with your husband if you follow these tips
1. ALWAYS LOVE HIM
Make it a commitment to always love your husband. You shouldn’t only love him when everything is rosy, love him during bad times too. Treat your marriage like a commitment and choose to love your husband always.
2. AVOID TALKING NEGATIVELY ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Saying negative things about your husband to friends and family isn’t something you should do if you want a healthy marriage. When you talk negatively about your husband to your family and friends, you build a bad image about him with your friends and family. Learn to protect your husband’s image.
3. NEVER THREATEN YOUR HUSBAND WITH A DIVORCE
No matter how angry you are, it’s wrong to threaten your husband with a divorce. Many women use this a lot whenever they have problems with their husband and this is so wrong.
4. TAKE YOUR HUSBAND OUT ON A DATE REGULARLY
Having a date regularly with your husband is important for your marriage. It’s important you never stop dating your husband. Learn to take your husband out and give him a treat. Doing this regularly will help you connect emotionally with your husband.
5. BE OPEN WITH YOUR HUSBAND
I always talk about the importance of having an open communication because this is important in every relationship. Learn to communicate how you feel with your husband regularly. Stop expecting your husband to read your mind.
6. FORGIVE HIS MISTAKES
There is no perfect husband, so never go into marriage expecting one. Everyone makes mistakes so you should expect your husband to make mistakes sometimes. Forgive his mistakes and avoid holding a grudge.
7. YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD BE YOUR PRIORITY
Most women make their kids and careers their priority. This is wrong. Your husband should be your priority, not your kids, career, best friend or mother. When you make your husband your priority, your children will reap the benefits. You should also know that someday, your kids will grow up and leave to chase their dreams and if you haven’t built a good relationship with your husband, it will be a problem then.
8. AVOID COMPARISONS
Avoid comparing your husband to other men. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Appreciate the man you have and support him to achieve his potential.
9. RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND
You should respect your husband whether he earns it or not. Most women will only respect their husband when he earns it and this is wrong. When you respect your husband even when he doesn’t earn it, it will motivate him to earn it. Even when he does things you don’t like, learn to talk about it with him with respect.