There are certain things women do that leave me wondering; the essence or usefulness of such acts remains unanswered, but ladies still keep doing them time and time again.
These nine things I’d point out add no value to a woman’s life but would rather make her lose her worth in the long run, and every woman should stop doing them.
1. FIGHT OVER A MAN
I still don’t get why two women would fight over a man. He’s probably cheating on the both of you, telling you cheap lies, and you still get to fight each other leaving the man aside like he’s the saint. If there is any one to pour your vengeance on, it’s your man — it leaves me gob smacked to see two women fight each other over a man.
2. POST SEMI-NAKED PICTURES TO BOOST SELF-ESTEEM
A look across various social media platforms would show you various young ladies posting semi-naked pictures online just to get more followers, more likes or notice from the opposite sex especially. Many ladies do this to boost their self-worth, but the truth is there is a bigger problem if you need to post naked pictures just to boost your worth.
3. LIVING LIFE ON SOCIAL MEDIA
The social media is fun, it’s cool, but it isn’t life. A lot of women live their life on social media, and to some extent it isn’t advisable. Using the social media and living your life on it are two different things.
4. NAGGING
Nagging should be far from every woman; nagging makes you annoying and a terrible partner to live with. No matter how good a woman you are, if you a nagging partner, it covers all your good tendencies.
5. HITTING OUT AT OTHER WOMEN TO FEEL BETTER
Sometimes women hate other women for no reason — maybe it’s jealousy. Some women even go as far as criticising other women they don’t know. Doing this says a lot about your person.
6. BEING DESPERATE FOR A MAN
Some women are too desperate for a man; worse still, some are desperate for marriage or relationships and feel they aren’t close to being complete and fulfilled in life. Men see your desperation, and being desperate takes away your shine and value as a woman, making you look more mediocre in a man’s eyes. Find fulfillment in yourself, and a man would notice your worth from a distance. Read 6 reasons a desperate woman would probably never get a serious man.
7. FEELING BAD ABOUT YOUR BODY
We once reported a research which found that feeling bad about your body can cause you to have health issues. Feeling bad about your body would only cause you to feel depressed. Rather than feel bad about your body, work hard to get a better body, stay fit and healthy and accept your body — be proud of yourself or no one will.
8. COMPARISONS
The grass is always greener on the other side. Making unnecessary comparisons with someone else can be very dangerous. Live your life to the full and be the best you can be.
9. WORRYING ABOUT EVERYTHING
Ladies cut yourself some slack. Stop worrying about everything — it never helps. Stop blaming yourself for everything — you would only feel worse. Have a more relaxed life and be at peace with yourself and the world; this way, you would feel more fulfilled.
Every woman should take this serious. You would probably live a better life if you avoid these nine things mentioned. Have a wonderful life ahead, ladies.
ViV