Attraction is very important for a relationship/marriage to succeed on the long-term. When you are attracted to someone, it’s easy to love that person; but when that attraction is gone or has faded, love would most likely fade.
Attraction makes love easy, and your relationship would be difficult when your man isn’t attracted to you anymore.
These are some signs he isn’t attracted to you anymore:
1. HE NO LONGER SEES YOU AS BEAUTIFUL
A man who’s still attracted to you would always see you as beautiful, even when you feel you aren’t. But when he doesn’t recognize your beauty even when you are at your worse, then the attraction is no longer there.
His attraction to you has little to do with how beautiful you are, but how beautiful he perceives you to be.
2. HE GETS EASILY IRRITATED BY YOUR PRESENCE
When his attraction for you has faded, your presence would be like a nightmare to him; he would be embroiled with every little thing you do, and he could even get irritated with you for doing nothing.
3. NO DESIRE FOR INTIMACY
Of course, intimacy requires desire, and desire is a sign of attraction. When your man loses the desire to have intimate moments with you, and he isn’t even affected by your body and sex appeal, then it’s because the feeling of attraction isn’t there anymore.
4. THE LITTLE SIGNS OF LOVE BECOME NONEXISTENT
The little signs of love and affection are holding of hands, cuddling, kissing and doing things together — also, sharing a joke and laughing together. All these things would be nonexistent when your man isn’t attracted to you.
5. HE NO LONGER SHOWS HIS LOVE
When a man is in love with you, he’s still attracted to you, and when he’s attracted to you, he would do certain things to prove he loves you. He would try to put a smile on your face and do things to make you happy — that’s because he’s attracted to you. However, when he loses his attraction for you, he would no longer have the urge to show you he loves you, and even saying that he loves you would become a difficult task.
6. NO DESIRE FOR ROMANTIC MOMENTS
Romantic moments like date nights, movie nights and other things that help bond couple would be lost when a man is no longer attracted to you. He wouldn’t see your smile as beautiful anymore, and date nights would become boring to him.
7. AFFECTION DIES
Affection goes hand in hand with attraction. When attraction dies, affection goes with it. So every form of affection he used to show would become a thing of the past when the attraction is no longer there.
8. HE NO LONGER COMPLIMENTS YOU
He won’t compliment you anymore when his attraction for you has died away, no matter what you do or try to do. This is because he no longer sees you as beautiful and he no longer considers what you do as charming anymore.
9. HE WOULD BE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE
Emotional unavailability is a major sign that he’s no longer attracted to you, and he would then become too busy for you, even though he used to be always available for you.
Loss of attraction is a big relationship problem, and when the attraction starts fading away, love might follow it soon enough.
Shawn