Marriage is a bigger deal than relationships, and while you can jump in and out of a relationship, it isn’t so with marriage.
People treat their marriage like it’s a mere relationship, and take all their garbage into the marriage, not knowing that it would affect the marriage terribly.
Certain habits you take into your marriage would only cause it to become toxic.
These are some of those habits:
1. COMPARISONS
If you’re the kind who would always compare your partner/relationship with another, you need to let go of such a habit before getting married.
Comparisons bring a lot of negative seeds along with it, and if you bring it to your home, you’d never enjoy that marriage.
2. CONSTANT COMPLAINING
Discontentment, nagging, complaining all show one thing — lack of appreciation. You must learn to appreciate your partner and show your partner support rather than complain about everything. Constant complaining will only wreck your home.
3. ANGER
Anger is another bad habit that you shouldn’t take into your marriage. When you are angry, you aren’t in control of your emotions and you’d tend to say or do things that you wouldn’t ordinarily do.
You must learn to keep your emotions in check if you want a peaceful marriage.
4. SELF-CENTREDNESS
Selfishness is another habit you must let go of before getting married. You must learn to think of your partner as well. and take certain decisions irrespective of what you want and how you want it.
5. EGO
Cut off unnecessary ego and pride; if there’s one person you shouldn’t show it to, it’s your spouse.
How can you have a healthy relationship with your partner when you are egotistical?
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