Most guys think being a good boyfriend is being good in bed. You are so far from the truth. If you want to be the perfect boyfriend, you have to see the world through the eyes of your girlfriend.
Below are tips that will help you become the perfect boyfriend
1. NEVER TAKE HER FOR GRANTED
Never take a gesture from your girlfriend for granted. If you want to be the perfect boyfriend, you have to be thankful and appreciate every affectionate gesture from your girlfriend. Don’t just say it’s her responsibility as a girlfriend, that is you taking her for granted.
2. ENCOURAGE HER TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF HERSELF
Couples in a good and healthy relationship help each other become a better person and this is what your girlfriend expects from you. If you want to be the man she adores, encourage and help her become a better person and help her overcome her flaws.
3. GIVE HER PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT
Every woman wants a man that will treat her like a queen. She will adore you if you treat her like a lady. Your girlfriend wants you to make her feel special.
4. DON’T PUT SO MUCH EMPHASIS ON SEX
Guys tend to put so much emphasis on sex and forget that affection matters in a relationship. Your girlfriend wants you to desire her even when you don’t have sex in mind. Hug her regularly, kiss her and hold her hand. She will be happy if you do this.
5. BE THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDS YOU
What’s the point having a boyfriend if he is never there when you need him? She wants you to be there for her when she needs a bit of help from you. Every woman wants a man that supports her when she’s in need.
6. APOLOGIZE EVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOT WRONG
I know most guys won’t be happy with this but this is so true. Sometimes as a man, just apologize and let peace reign even when you are wrong. You can always let her know you believe you are right but apologised for the sake of the relationship afterwards.
7. DON’T CAGE HER
You can’t be that man she adores if you try to dominate and cage her. Men who cage women and try to dictate for them are insecure men. Instead of trying to force her into becoming what you want her to be, learn to communicate.
8. RESPECT HER
Every guy demands respect from their girlfriend but only few actually respect their girlfriend. If you treat your girlfriend with respect, she will reciprocate and respect you too. Just because she’s your girlfriend doesn’t mean you should treat her anyhow you like. You will respect your girlfriend if you truly love her.
Phil