Remaining attracted to each other even after years of being married is no easy feat, but it’s one that shows the marriage is heading in the right direction.
One reason many couples falter is because they lose interest in each other and no longer see each other as attractive as they used.
Maintaining the attraction is key here and these are some ways you can maintain the attraction.
1. ALWAYS SPICE THINGS UP
Never feel you are too old or ‘too married’ to have good moments with your partner. Spice things up REGULARLY; go on lots of dates, spend quality time together, create lots of magical moments — this way, you could keep the flames burning in your marriage for a long time.
2. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE MATTERS
A lot of people get lazy to take proper care of themselves once they are married, but this should never be the case. Take care of yourself better and look the best you can be, not only for yourself, but your partner too. If your partner remains physically attracted to you then it’s easier to keep the love going.
3. BE BEST OF FRIENDS
Practice friendship in your marriage; let your partner be your go-to person, someone you can talk with and share a joke with, someone you can play with and someone you wouldn’t hide things from. When you practice friendship in your marriage, the love would only blossom.
4. DO LITTLE THINGS FOR EACH OTHER
Doing the little things make things better and avoiding those little things make relationships and marriages fall apart. Never let a day pass without thinking: “What little thing can I do to make my husband or wife happy?”
5. MAKE YOUR SEX LIFE BETTER
If love is the fuel needed for the marriage to keep going, good sex provides the passion to keep it burning. Stay true and faithful to your partner and pour your sexual energy into that marriage.
6. APPRECIATE EACH OTHER
Couples who appreciate each other have better marriages. Learn to appreciate each other and more importantly, learn to appreciate the little things you do for each other.
7. USE SURPRISES TO SPARK THINGS UP
Do you love the smile you see on your partner’s face whenever you put up a surprise? That smile only reveals something: everyone gets thrilled by surprises. Everyone loves to be surprised and surprising your partner creates a certain magical feeling and also increases the love and spark in your marriage.
8. COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER
Just like surprises, compliments also have a certain effect on your partner — a thrilling effect which passes a message of care and attention. When partners compliment each other, they feel loved and cared for and they feel they have their partner’s attention. Let compliments have its way in your marriage and you would feel the magic that comes with compliments.
If you want a better married life then these tips are just right for you.