A lot of ladies have been faced with a situation where their friends get more attention from men than them; so many ladies don’t know how to handle such situations and rather hate their friend out of envy.
In reality, it’s probably no fault of yours that your friend is pulling it off than you as far as men are concerned, and it also doesn’t mean that you are less appealing — and more importantly, it’s not an excuse to get jealous of her.
From a man’s point of view, these are the major reasons why we might find your friend more appealing:
1. BEAUTY
Of course, almost every man is attracted to a beautiful woman, and the more beautiful a woman is, the more attention she would get from men. So, if your friend edges you by a distance in beauty then she would most likely attract more men than you.
2. CHARISMA
Charisma is everything as far as appeal is concerned. Even if you aren’t blessed with looks, your charisma can easily win you people’s heart. Some people are more charismatic than others and would definitely win people’s appeal the more.
3. ORIGINALITY
Originality is another quality that could make a person more and more appealing. Sometimes a lady with less makeup can even be more appealing than a lady with lots of makeup on her face. Originality doesn’t only have to do with looks and beauty; attitude, character, dressing, behaviour and a host of other attributes can show originality, and originality is one trait that’s loved by humans generally.
4. SMILE
A smiling woman would easily win her way through the hearts of men. Do your friend smile a lot? This could be the reason – men are easily attracted to a woman who smiles easily. Such a woman is easy to be with, would easily laugh at a joke and is even deemed more trustworthy. Smile radiates a kind of beauty that the best of makeups can’t bring.
5. SHE’S FUN TO BE WITH
A woman that’s lively and fun to be with would usually get tons of interest from men. Every man loves a woman that he would have a swell time with, and if your friend is usually fun to be with, most of the knocks on the door would definitely be for her.
6. SHE’S SEXIER
Sex appeal is one of the biggest appeals for men, and if your friend has it going in the sex appeal department then she would definitely have the men coming in their droves.
7. THEY SYNC
Some people just click for no obvious reason and when this happens, the bond that’s formed would last a long time. This has more to do with certain inward personality similarities, and it just comes naturally.
8. ATTITUDE
Attitude has a lot to do with so many things and being attractive isn’t left out. Some women are more receptive to men and this doesn’t mean they are slots — such women would definitely have the men coming in their droves. Also, some have characters and attitude that are generally pleasing. However, some women have terrible characters and such characters could chase a man away no matter how beautiful you might look.
Getting envious or having low self-esteem because your friend gets double the stare and attention you get doesn’t mean a thing — a lot of the times what attracts a man to a woman for the first time are usually superficial things and may not last.
Do not use the attention or lack of attention from men to place a value on your worth. Having one man who understands your worth is way more valuable than a million stare from men.
Shawn