How do you open up to love when it has dealt with you more than you can remember? How do you believe in love yet again when it never seems to work for you? There are various reasons you may give for not letting love in, but there are some reasons why you should be open to love that far outweighs these other reasons.
These are some ways you should open up to love.
1. LET GO OF YOUR FEARS
The fear of being hurt, the fear of the relationship not working and the fear of being a failure at relationships should be let go of if you want to build a good relationship. Let go of those fears, and you will find your heart being open to love again.
2. FORGET THE PAST
The past you cannot change, but the future you can. Let your heart heal from the past hurts and pains, and one way this can happen is by letting go of the past.
3. LEARN FROM THE PAST
If anything, you should learn from the mistakes and choices you have made in the past. Learn from your past mistakes and get better from it. Let your past mistakes be a learning experience for you that will help you make better choices.
4. AVOID SELF-PITY
Let go of self-pity; it will only lower your self-esteem and make it even more difficult for you to be loved. Dust yourself up and live your life with self-confidence and not pity. You open up yourself to being loved when you are confident in yourself.
5. VALUE YOURSELF
Learn to love yourself and value yourself; people will only learn to love and value you when you do this for yourself. You make yourself more attractive and loveable when you love and value yourself.
6. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF
Be true to yourself and seek to be your most honest self. Be who you are and don’t try to be someone else. By being true to yourself, you’ll attract people who are better suited to you.
7. DON’T COMPARE
Don’t try to compare yourself or your love life with another person; you lose a lot when you do this. Don’t be bitter and envious of what people have, instead be grateful for yours. We all have our own journey, and you take the wrong route when you live a life of envy and comparisons.
Opening up to love could be one of the best decisions you could make for yourself, and this is just how to do that.
Shawn