I accept the fact that when in a relationship, you shouldn’t concentrate on your partner’s flaws because no one is perfect but it’s also important every lady understands that there should be a limit to what you should take from your partner in a relationship.
Love should only be blind when you are in a healthy relationship. It shouldn’t be blind when you are in an unhealthy relationship. If your partner’s flaws affects your self-respect, there is something fundamentally wrong with that relationship.
Below are 7 things no woman should tolerate in a relationship
1. FORCED SEX
Ladies, no man (husband or boyfriend) should force you into having sex with him. It’s sad to note that some men believe it’s their right to have sex with their wife or girlfriend whether she wants sex or not. Sex should be consensual. No woman should tolerate a man forcing her to have sex with him whether the man is a husband or a boyfriend.
2. INFIDELITY
No woman should accept any form of cheating from her man. If he truly loves you as he claims, he will never cheat on you. The reason most men continue to cheat is because they are convinced they will be forgiven. No woman should remain with a cheating partner. If he cheats on you once, he will most likely cheat on you again.
3. LIES
A man who lies for fun shouldn’t be tolerated. A healthy relationship should be open and there should be no room for lies and secrets. No woman should tolerate a man who lies about his health, family background or finances. Move away from such relationships.
4. ABUSE
No woman should remain with a man who hits her. Physical abuse shouldn’t be tolerated in any relationship. So many women accept their man abusing them verbally and emotionally. This is wrong too. Never accept any form of abuse from your man whether it’s physical, verbal or emotional.
5. NOT BEING HIS PRIORITY
You shouldn’t remain in a relationship in which you are not your man’s priority. You might not be his priority always as he has other commitments to fulfill but you should be his priority most times.
6. CONTROLS YOUR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
A healthy relationship accommodates relationships with family and friends. Never tolerate a man who tries to control your relationship with family and friends. Men with such attitudes tend to be abusive. Run away from such men.
7. DOESN’T SUPPORT YOUR DREAMS
An ideal man should help make you a better version of yourself by supporting your dreams. Never tolerate a man who hates your success and doesn’t respect your dreams. Stay away from men who think women shouldn’t have a successful career. A woman can have a successful relationship and a successful career just as a man.
Phil