Marriage becomes better when both partners know and understand their roles and play it very well.
However, even when you are playing your roles well, your efforts could become irrelevant if you mix them up with toxic characters, because these characters will only frustrate your partner.
These are examples of those toxic characters that shouldn’t be found in women.
1. NAGGING
Too much cannot be said about nagging. Nagging is one unhealthy and toxic attitude that would totally ruin your relationship with your husband. The more you nag, the more you create toxic thoughts in your man’s heart and the more you kill the good relationship that’s going on between the two of you.
2. WANTING TO HAVE YOUR WAY ALL THE TIME
This is another unhealthy habit that many women are fond of. When you try to have it your way all the time and keep a sad mood because things don’t go your way, you are being unfair to your man.
3. UNHEALTHY COMPARISONS
Never compare your man with another man. Don’t try it, don’t think of it and don’t do it.
Never relate what the husband of your friend is doing for your friend or what another man is doing for his wife that your own husband isn’t doing. Don’t go there; your marriage might never recover from it.
4. STOP WAITING TO BE APOLOGISED TO
Don’t wait to be apologised to all the time before peace will happen. Don’t always wait till your husband apologises, and stop thinking your man is the only one who should apologise when at fault. Apologise too when you are wrong.
5. STOP USING SEX AS A WEAPON
Sex should strengthen the bond between couples and not otherwise. If you use sex as a bargaining tool, you are using sex wrongly and you are being selfish or even wicked to your husband.
6. DON’T FORGET TO BE A WIFE EVEN WHEN YOU BECOME A MOTHER
Being a mother and a wife could be very difficult to combine, especially in the early stages of the children. But you shouldn’t let the children come in-between what you share with your husband.
7. STOP EXPECTING YOUR HUSBAND TO READ YOUR MIND
Don’t keep a dull mood and expect your husband to know what exactly is wrong. Learn to be in control of your mood and be happy always. If you are sad about something, then tell him.
I’m pretty much sure a lot of married men can relate with this piece and would wish their wife stop doing these things listed above.
If you are still doing these things as a woman, you need to change your ways because you are hurting that marriage without knowing.
Shawn