So many women are scared of falling in love again because they are worried they might be used by the next guy. I really can’t blame women who are scared of falling in love again because when you fall in love, you open up yourself and become vulnerable.
These tips will help reduce the chances of having guys mess with you. Don’t be scared of falling in love so you don’t miss the right guy. All you have to do is fall in love while also ensuring you don’t get messed with by applying these tips.
These tips might not work all the time but they work most times.
1. DELAY HAVING SEX WITH HIM
A guy who wants to use you will be desperate to have sex with you so if he is genuinely interested in you, he will wait until you’re ready. Don’t be in a hurry to have sex with him just because he told you that he loves you. Give yourself time.
2. PAY MORE ATTENTION TO HIS ACTIONS AND LESS ATTENTION TO HIS WORDS
Empty barrels make the loudest noise. If he truly loves you, he will match his words with actions. If he makes too many promises and fails to fulfill them, that’s a red flag. A man who is genuinely in love with you will be caring, generous, kind and thoughtful.
3. BE SURE YOU’RE HIS PRIORITY
Don’t give your heart to a man who doesn’t make you his priority because he would mess with your heart in no time. Be sure you’re his priority. A man who makes you his priority will never be too busy for you.
4. ENSURE THERE ARE MORE GOOD DAYS THAN BAD DAYS
You have no business being with him if there are more bad days than good days. When you are with the right man, everything will feel right. You will be relaxed and comfortable too.
5. DON’T ACCEPT HIS BAD BEHAVIOUR
If he is unwilling to accept his bad behaviour and work on them, you have no business being with him. You know the behaviours of your ex that hurt you real bad, make sure the current guy doesn’t repeat same behaviours or you might find yourself heartbroken again.
6. CHECK HOW HE TREATS HIS FAMILY
If he doesn’t treat his family right, he won’t treat you right. A man who is responsible will treat his parents right and have a good relationship with them. His relationship with his family will give you a clue of how responsible he is.
7. MAKE SURE HE IS PROUD OF YOU
A man who is proud of you will treat you right. If he is proud of you, he will be proud to show you off to his friends and family. If he is proud of you, he will be happy to include you in every aspect of his life.
Phil