A relationship where your partner makes you a priority is the best kind of relationship to be in. In such a relationship, you’d feel loved, cared for and cherished. But when you aren’t a priority in your relationship, you could even be a bit unsure of the relationship – and the happiness and value gotten from the relationship will be minimal.
See some signs of a relationship where you are a priority to your partner.
1. YOUR SPECIAL OCCASIONS DON’T SEEM SPECIAL TO THEM
When you are a priority to your partner, your partner will be happy for and what makes you happy will be important to them. But when you aren’t a priority, even your special occasions will feel ordinary to them.
2. YOU BEG FOR ATTENTION
With a partner who doesn’t make you a priority, you’d constantly have to beg for attention. But even at that, you won’t still get much attention.
3. HAPPY MOMENTS ARE RARE
When you have a healthy relationship where you are being prioritised, happy moments will follow. Your partner will create time to have special and happy moments with you.
4. YOU FEEL ALONE
When your partner doesn’t make you a priority in the relationship, you’d feel alone most times, because it’ll be like you are in a relationship with yourself.
5. NONCHALANCE
While you might be committed to making the relationship work, the same cannot be said about your partner. A partner who doesn’t make you a priority will always have this act of nonchalance that would make him/her less committed to making the relationship a beautiful one.
6. YOU’RE BEING USED
Don’t be surprised to find out that your partner will only use you for selfish reasons in such a relationship. When you are in a relationship where you aren’t a priority to your partner, your partner could use you just for their own selfish reasons.
7. THEY DON’T MIND DISAPPOINTING YOU
A partner who makes you a priority will feel so sad when they disappoint you, but a partner who doesn’t see you as a priority would disappoint you time without number and wouldn’t even mind.
When you find yourself in a relationship like this, your happiness will be far from guaranteed; you’d always feel like you’re in the wrong relationship.
ViV