Trust is an essential ingredient a relationship should have, if it wants to be successful. Trust makes it easier for love to grow, but an absence of trust will only fill the relationship with negative vibes.
Trust is missing in many relationships today, and many people don’t trust their partners.
Are you one of those partners that isn’t trusted? Below are some of the reasons why your partner doesn’t trust you.
1. YOU DON’T LET THEM IN CERTAIN PARTS OF YOUR LIFE
Your partner (especially if you are married) expects you to let them in your life — and every part of it. When you block them away from certain aspects of your life, you create room for your partner to distrust you, and no matter how hard you try, it’ll be impossible to get that your partner to fully trust you.
2. YOU ARE TOO SECRETIVE
When you are too secretive, your partner will try to make assumptions as to what you are being secretive about and why you are being secretive. Those assumptions can hardly be positive, and it’ll cause your partner to start having distrust little by little, till it reaches a very high point.
3. YOUR PAST DEEDS
Things you have done in the past could make your partner distrust you, and your actions will either show that you can now be trusted or not. If there are still suspicions about you, that person will never trust you.
4. YOU DON’T KEEP TO YOUR WORDS
Being a man/woman of your words is a good way for people have trust in you. But when you say something and do another, or when you are never accountable for the things you say, it’ll be hard for people to trust you.
5. YOU AREN’T ALWAYS HONEST
For trust to be earned, there has to be honesty. When you aren’t always straight in your endeavours then you leave room for distrust.
6. YOU DON’T ACT LIKE A TEAM
Teamwork breeds togetherness, and togetherness brings trust. When you do things on your own and without your partner, then you make it easy for your partner not to trust you.
7. NONCHALANCE
When you don’t show enough commitment to the relationship, then you make it difficult for your partner to trust you. If you are only about talk and you don’t show enough desire that you value the relationship, then it’ll be hard to win your partner’s trust.
Trust isn’t given for free, especially when it has been broken once. If your partner doesn’t trust you, then it doesn’t go beyond these reasons.
Shawn