Nobody is perfect, but with the right knowledge and some effort, we can at least be close to it.
If you’re a woman, and you’re wondering how to always be admired by men around you, you can start by avoiding the following fails in your everyday life.
1. DON’T TRY TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE
The number one injustice one can do to his/herself is to ignore who they truly are, and try to be another person. Trying to copy someone else would make you seem as lacking in confidence and desperate for approval. We are all unique in our own different ways, instead of trying to be another person, you can allow yourself explore your uniqueness and use it to your advantage. No one likes fake people, definitely not men.
2. DO NOT MISTAKE TRASHY FOR SEXY
There’s a lot of difference between ‘sexy’ and ‘trashy’, but a lot of women tend to confuse the two. ‘Sexy’ is fine and acceptable, and ‘trashy’ is extreme and unacceptable. You can look sexy and appealing without looking like a roadside slut, it’s basically about getting the combinations right. You do not have to over-expose your bodily features to attract the next man or get approval from people. Most men do not even like women who do stuff like that for real. If a man showers you with all the compliments in the world because you’re looking half-naked, he’s obviously trying to hit it and run. Most men always look out for decent looking women when they want something serious.
3. Unless you stay alone, and don’t expect any visitors in your house ever, be sure to properly dispose off your used sanitary pads. It’s a bad sight for anyone to behold, especially not a man.
4. Wear stuff you’re comfortable in. If you do not think you can be yourself in an outfit or a pair of shoes, do not go out in it (them). It’s not a good sight to see a woman wearing a pair of high heel shoes, and walking like a wounded duck.
5. Keep the makeup and accessories minimal. You don’t want to step out looking like a masquerade; that is a major turn off for guys.
6. Avoid nagging and other attitude problems. It’s going to be a bit difficult because obviously we are all humans, and we’ve got emotions, but you can at least keep it to a low. Do not disrespect people around you, or nag on and on about everything and anything, it is not attractive.
7. Avoid poor hygiene. Be sure you are clean at all times. Keep your mouth clean and fresh because you never know who you’ll bump into. Shave your armpits when due, and by that, I mean often. If you must use artificial nails and polish, keep them appealing as well. Don’t leave your nail polish to wear off on its own; that is awful to the eyes.
So those were some of the basic things you got to avoid if you want to be that woman every man wants around him. Remember, this post is only meant to educate, inform and make you better.
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