Being a clingy girlfriend can be harmful to your relationship; if care isn’t taken, you could make your partner lose interest in you or the relationship. Being overly obsessive and controlling isn’t really ideal in a relationship.
We’ve brought you signs that show you are a clingy partner in case you don’t even know that you are a clingy partner; now it’s time to know how to stop being that clingy partner.
1. UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER
To stop being a clingy girlfriend to your man, you need to understand your man and understand his body language. When you understand him then it would be easier to know what he considers as clingy, because some men love their women to be clingy and others don’t; also, what might be clingy to Mr A might not really be seen as clingy to Mr B. So, understanding your man is key to knowing what he perceives as clingy.
2. TRUST IS NEEDED
A lack of trust is one of the reasons why many women remain clingy to their man and want to know of his every movement always. To be a less clingy girlfriend, you have to trust your man — this means you have to date a man who you can trust.
3. MAKE YOUR MAN WANT YOU MORE
Awe your man, be unpredictable and make him want you more. When you do this, he would even be more attached to you than you might expect. This way, you wouldn’t have to be as clingy as ever.
4. HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF
One major reason some ladies are clingy is because of a lack of self-esteem. When you don’t have that confidence and belief in yourself, you would become unnecessarily clingy to your man. See yourself as priceless, believe that you are worth it and there would be little reason for you to become so clingy.
5. BE BUSY
Idleness is also another reason why some ladies are always clingy to their man. When your mind is filled up with thoughts of how to improve your life, you would be less clingy to your man — and this doesn’t mean you would love him less.
6. DO THINGS YOU LOVE
Learn to make yourself happy, do not be totally dependent on your man; it’s this attitude that makes you clingy. Have fun, learn a skill, follow your passion, spend time too with your own friends; when you live this way, being clingy would cease to exist in your dictionary.
It’s important you learn how not to be a clingy girlfriend; you would be a better partner to your man when you learn to love him and still be independent.
ViV