Sometimes I just can’t help but ask how people cope with staying in unhealthy relationships. The sad truth is that some people don’t even see anything wrong with such relationships.
If you find yourself in any of the relationships listed below, it’s time you worked on your relationship or move on.
Below are 6 types of unhealthy relationships
1. THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS
Some men think it’s okay to hit a woman because they believe that’s the way to correct her when she does something wrong. Some women even think their man should hit them when they do wrong if he really loves them. Smh. This is so wrong. No woman should remain in an abusive relationship and no man should hit a woman.
2. THE “SCOREKEEPING” RELATIONSHIP
A relationship where scores are kept can’t thrive. You make your relationship suffer when you keep scores of your partner’s behaviour. Some even keep scores so they will be able to manipulate their partner.
3. THE “QUICK TO QUIT” RELATIONSHIP
OMG, this is a relationship no one should dream of having. Some people are so quick to call it quits during every disagreement with their partner. It’s like they are seeking an avenue to quit the relationship. Every disagreement is seen as an excuse to quit. Dating people like this can really be hell.
4. THE “CHEATERS” RELATIONSHIP
Some people can’t just be content with having one relationship partner. Sometimes I wonder if they are under a spell. They just can’t help but cheat and end up giving the best of themselves to others at the expense of their relationship.
5. THE “BLAMERS” RELATIONSHIP
Some people will never accept the failure or struggle in their relationship as their fault. They are always right and their partner is always wrong. When you blame everyone but yourself, you end up having a frustrating relationship.
6. THE “NO TRANSPARENCY” RELATIONSHIP
Why bother to date someone you can’t trust? When you date someone you can’t trust, you end up having a lack of transparency in the relationship. A relationship with secrets and no transparency is doomed to fail.
Phil