Nagging is a terrible habit, and it’s hard to tolerate a nagging partner, truth be told. But sometimes, some people bring out the nagging off their partners, even when it didn’t exist.
Your partner might not be a nagging partner, but you could make them a nagging partner when you do this.
1. YOU DON’T PLAY YOUR PART
Everyone has a role to play in a relationship. If your partner is playing his/her part very well, they would expect you to do too — or at least try to. But when you don’t play your part or try to play your part, you could cause your partner to be a nag.
2. YOU ARE NONCHALANT
When you have a nonchalant attitude to things that you ought to do, or you don’t care about anything going on, you would definitely irritate your partner. This could turn a quiet partner into a nagging one.
3. YOU ALWAYS FORGET THINGS
It could be annoying when you always forget what you ought to do, and this could infuriate your partner. Try to write things down if you know you would forget, or set reminders with your mobile phone.
4. YOU ALWAYS BREAK YOUR PROMISES
It’s better not to make any promises than to break them. Never make a promise that you can’t keep.
When you are the kind of partner that always break promises, you would get your partner hurt and annoyed all the time. Worse still, you would get your partner disappointed.
5. YOU KEEP DOING THE SAME THINGS OVER AND OVER
It’s okay to make a mistake, but it’s not okay to keep repeating the same mistakes over and over. This would turn the most quiet partner into a nagging one.
6. YOU DON’T MAKE ANY EFFORT
When you don’t make any effort to change or learn from your mistakes or be better, you would piss your partner off. This is probably the worst of them all.
Your partner might be a nagging partner, but a lot of the times, people push their partner into nagging.
While it’s not good to be a nagging partner, it’s unfair to push your partner into nagging.
ViV