Many people tend to feel that they are failures when it comes to relationships. The fact that you go from one failed relationship to another doesn’t make you a failure in relationships, and you shouldn’t take it hard upon yourself.
Having unsuccessful relationships repeatedly doesn’t make you a relationship failure and I’d share some reasons why.
1. NO ONE IS PERFECT WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS
First and foremost, there is no perfect relationship partner; no one is perfect at relationships. Imperfections still exist even in successful relationships; so do not think that there is that perfect person in a relationship.
2 RELATIONSHIPS DON’T SERVE AS A MEASURE FOR GREATNESS
The fact that you are single or have a failed relationship doesn’t make you any less of a person than someone who is in a successful relationship. Having a good relationship isn’t a guarantee to finding fulfilment in life.
3. FAILURE TEACHES YOU TO SUCCEED
I’ve never seen a great success without an element of failure in it. In every great success, at one point failure existed. It’s from failure that you learn; failure teaches you valuable lessons that would bring you success. So failing in a relationship doesn’t make you a relationship failure; it’s only a chance for you to learn to probably choose a better partner or how to be a better partner.
4. WITH RELATIONSHIP FAILURES, YOU LEARN MORE ABOUT YOURSELF
When you fail in relationships, you know more about yourself and the kind of partner that really suits you. Relationship failures give you that chance to know what or who’s actually better for you. Without these experiences, it’s hard to find out who and what you are looking for.
5. SOME THINGS ARE OUT OF YOUR CONTROL
Some things in life are definitely out of your control; meeting that partner who’s suitable for you isn’t really something that’s in your powers, but with patience, you can actually meet that person.
6. DATING AGAIN SHOWS AN ABSENCE OF FEAR
Dating again shows an absence of fear in you; it shows that don’t give up easily and you are a determined person — and these are some of the characteristics that make true success.
Never for a second label yourself a relationship failure because of some failed relationships you have had; as long as there is life, there is hope. No one is a relationship failure, except you say you are.
ViV