A lot of people keep multiple partners—some keep two, some six while some keep as many as possible. Men with loads of ladies are perceived to be cool and attractive, that is, they are perceived to have something the ladies want. But it isn’t just the men who are culprits of this; ladies are too, so many women have multiple male partners for various reasons.
If you think having multiple partners is cool then this piece is for you, and if you keep just one partner, you are the one who’s really cool.
6 reasons having multiple partner isn’t that cool afterwards.
1. YOU RISK GETTING STD
The more partners you have means the more likely you are going to get infected with an STD or STI. If you have 6 partners and 2 of your 6 partners have 6 partners and one of those 6 partners have 8 partners—and the cycle continues, you risk contracting an STI. That kind of affair is like a ping pong, anything can come and anything should be expected. Contracting an STD isn’t that cool afterwards and so is having multiple partners.
2. FOR THE LADIES, THERE IS A CHANCE OF NOT KNOWING THE DAD IN THE CASE PREGNANCY
Pregnancy is likely when a lady has multiple partners, and the disastrous thing about it is not knowing who the father of the child really is. Many women have been caught up in that situation where they are confused on who really is the father of their child. One thing about having just one partner is that you are absolutely sure of who the father of your child is.
3. IMMATURITY AND IRRESPONSIBILITY
Being faithful is a sign of maturity in relationships while being unfaithful is a total sign of irresponsibility, and you know what they say about irresponsible people. When you are faithful to one partner, you are responsible and to be trusted with one’s feelings and emotions; the same cannot be said of one with multiple partners.
4. IT SHOWS A WICKED SIDE OF YOU
You might feel it’s totally cool but one thing having multiple partners show is a person who doesn’t care about another person’s feeling; a person who doesn’t see the worth of his partner; a person that’s deceitful and a person that can’t be all loving to just one partner—now that’s wickedness.
5. YOU LOSE YOUR WORTH
I don’t know why society seems too harsh on women and have a softer judgement for men. A woman with multiple partners is seen as a she-devil whose stock keeps depreciating, but the same can’t be said of a man in same situation. However, contrary to what society thinks, I think both the man and the woman loses value of who and what they really are—they have no respect for their body and that of others.
6. YOU TEND TO SPEND TOO MUCH
Fellas, have you ever heard the wise saying that it’s cheaper to keep one woman? That is absolutely true; having multiple women in your lives mean spending much more money unnecessarily and that isn’t cool afterwards. From the economic point of view, it’s waste of money; from the accountant point of view, most of the money spent would go unaccounted for and from the manager’s point of view, it’s poor management.
Having multiple partners is a lose-lose situation even if society tries to make you feel otherwise, it’s uncool and shows total disregard to important things as your body, health and personality.
S.O.Z