Not every man who comes to you for a relationship actually wants a real relationship with you; some seek companionship, some seek fun and excitement, some seek sexual intimacy and some might want to know how it would feel to be with you. Some might like you at first and lose it after a while.
When in such a relationship where you are being toyed with, your emotions are being played with and your man takes you for granted, these are some of the decisions you should ready to make.
1. STOP TRYING TO PLEASE HIM
Trying to win him over or trying to please him might be a waste of time. If he has toyed with your emotions for months and even years then he’s passing a message but you aren’t listening. Don’t kill yourself for a man who would only take your feelings and emotions for granted. Recognise what he’s doing to you, recognise that he doesn’t value you and then stop trying to save him; you never had him in the first place.
2. BE READY TO LEAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP
This is another important step you should be willing to make. After you’ve noticed that he’s taking your feelings and emotions for granted and that he’s toying with them, you should be ready and willing to leave that relationship; that relationship is toxic and it isn’t meant for you.
3. HEAL
If you have left the relationship, let your heart heal; don’t carry grudges (it wouldn’t help), don’t keep thinking about it; just let your heart be free from everything and heal completely.
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