Sometimes, women misunderstand men and see things from the opposite direction of the man. A man could say this and the woman would imply he meant something else.
Sometimes, these misconceptions even affect the relationship and cause frictions where there shouldn’t.
These are 5 of those common misconceptions:
1. SOME WOMEN FEEL THAT A MAN SHOULD BANISH HIS FRIENDS FROM HIS LIFE IF HE LOVES HER
To a man, his friends are highly important to him and they play a different role in his life that he would always cherish. This doesn’t take anything from the fact that he loves and cherishes the woman in his life. Banishing his friends is an almost impossible task.
2. ADMIRING A LADY MEANS SEX
While admiring another lady can create jealousy, to most men it’s only an honest mistake. Not every man’s admiration of another woman means he wants a piece of her. It could be her charisma he admires, or confidence, or fashion style etc. And this doesn’t mean sex.
3. FORGETTING AN EVENT MEANS HE DOESN’T CARE
It’s no new story that if you forget a woman’s birthday and other important events, it passes a message to her that you don’t care. Well, this is another honest mistake a lot of men make. Most men are terrible with dates, while most women are good at it. Also, pressure from work and other life’s pressures doesn’t further help the man’s course.
In essence, forgetting an important event would also hurt the man; it’s a mistake he always fights to beat but hardly ever wins.
4. HAVING AN ALONE TIME MEANS HE’S TIRED OF HER
To a lot of women, when a man needs an alone time, it means he’s tired of her, but this isn’t always so. An alone time to most men is a time they seek to meditate. This time and space creates that opportunity for a man to think critically and generate ideas on the best way to move forward in life.
5. I DON’T KNOW MEANS HE ISN’T INTERESTED
A lot of women detest when a man says ‘I don’t know’. But I don’t know means I don’t know to most men; it means he wishes he knew the answer to tell you and has tried coming up with one but it didn’t work out. So ladies, when you ask for that choice of clothes or makeup or things your man have little knowledge of, don’t get too worried when he says he doesn’t know.
These are five common ways women think about men say or do that aren’t always true.
Phil