When a man doesn’t like a woman, it’s usually difficult to tell because men are naturally good at handling certain stuff (I call it situation management ) lol. But unlike men, when a woman doesn’t like you, it’s crystal clear— the handwriting is always there on the wall, because she wants you to know, and back off. Sadly though, most of the time, folks choose to ignore the signs, and only realize when it’s too late. This has led to disappointments and heartbreak for a lot of men. This is why you must pay attention to a woman’s body language — it always speaks louder than words.
When a woman doesn’t like a man, these are some of the things she does…
1. THEY TAG FRIENDS ALONG WHENEVER THEY WANT TO SEE HIM
It’s no secret that women love privacy a lot, especially when it involves men they like. They’d rather be with him alone than in company of two or more friends. So, guys, if a woman you’re interested in is always visiting you (that’s if she even agrees to) or coming to dates in company of one or two of her friends on more than one occasion, it is very likely that she doesn’t like you, and she’s indirectly telling you to back off. Now, notice that I said, ‘on more than one occasion’? This is because it’s not every time a woman brings her friend to a first date that it means she doesn’t like you. Sometimes, a woman can bring her friend to a first date as backup if she doesn’t feel secure. So sometimes, it’s just a security measure. However, if it repeats itself more than once…you may need to look somewhere else.
2. THEIR ATTENTION IS DIVIDED
So you invited her to come see you or chill with you somewhere, and instead of giving you the attention you crave, she spends at least half the date time toying with her phone or chatting with her backup friend….if you’ve been in this situation, clearly she doesn’t want to be there with you. Please, don’t push any further.
3. THEY DON’T SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOU
When you care about someone deeply and genuinely, you’ll want to spend as much time with them as possible — even create excuses just to achieve that purpose, but when the reverse is the case, you try to avoid them…at all cost.
When you do not interest a woman, she avoids you, and even on occasions where she comes out of pity, your time is cut short by her deliberately. She’ll cook up excuses and lies just so you let her go.
4. SHE MAKES HIM SPEND TOO MUCH
A female friend let me in on this women’s tactic lol. She told me that when a woman wants to frustrate a man she doesn’t like, usually after every other attempt to deter him from pestering her has failed, she resorts to making him spend so much money by making bogus financial/material requests. So guys, if you have that woman in your life who doesn’t give you enough attention, but anytime you call or visit, she presents you with one request or another… it’s a sign!
5. THERE’S LITTLE OR NO COMMUNICATION FROM HER
We all know that regular communication is a way of showing people that they matter to you. When you care about someone, you call them, text them etc. But when you don’t, you don’t waste your time, money and energy doing none of that.
If all she does instead is avoid your calls, doesn’t return your calls and messages, and when she’s around you, she hardly contributes to your conversation with some enthusiasm… she clearly doesn’t dig you!
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