After your honeymoon, it’s so easy for your marriage to become boring. Your partner stops being that fun guy or lady they were during courtship. If nothing is done to address the boredom, your marriage might just end in a divorce.
Below are 5 ways to revamp a dying marriage
1. BRING TO MIND WHAT ATTRACTED YOU TO YOUR SPOUSE
After marriage, it’s so easy to focus on the annoying things your partner does. You somehow neglect the things that attracted you to your spouse.
You can revamp your marriage by reminding yourself of the traits that attracted you to your spouse. When you do this, you rewire your brain to focus less on your partner’s annoying habits and more on the traits that made you adore your partner.
2. SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR PARTNER
During courtship or honeymoon, you always had an interrupted time with your spouse but these days you spend all your free time watching TV or chatting on social media.
To revamp your dying marriage, you need to spend more time with your partner without distractions.
3. DO THINGS TOGETHER
Doing things together as a couple is good for your marriage as it helps build lasting memories you and your partner will cherish.
So think of something fun to do with your partner. It could be a walk, a trip out of town or giving each other a massage. Learning something new together would also help your marriage.
4. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR SPOUSE WITHOUT COMPLAINING ABOUT ANYTHING
Married life comes with lots of bills to pay and this affects the conversation with our spouse. The conversation with our spouse tends to be centered on paying bills or fixing a problem at home.
Try having quality time with your spouse without complaints. Tell each other jokes and share interesting observations. Doing this will help keep you and your spouse relaxed while also strengthening the bond with your spouse.
5. IMPROVE YOURSELF
We tend to focus so much on our partner’s flaws sometimes that we forget we also have our own flaws.
Some have this annoying habit of getting too comfortable after marriage. They stop taking care of their health, hygiene and appearance. This is so wrong.
Improve your weaknesses and don’t let go of your strengths. Don’t get too comfortable with your hygiene, health and appearance. You also have to make yourself happy because you can’t give what you have.
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