Sometimes, you might feel angered by your wife, and at that point, you could even hate her — those moments happen a lot.
Sometimes, you could feel disrespected, less valued and unappreciated by your wife, and you could have an argument or misunderstanding with her that could make you question her sanity. But in spite of all these, you still have to love her, even when you don’t feel like.
Love is more than just a feeling or an emotion; it’s also a choice and an action.
This is how to love her even when you don’t feel like.
1. TAKE HER SOUR MOMENTS AS A ONE-OFF
Don’t take her bad moments too seriously; it’s a one-off, and you should see it so. When she gets in that mood that makes her seem impossible and almost unbearable, hate the act or the moment, but never hate her. See it as a one-off and value the real her in spite of it.
2. NEVER FORGET HER VALUE
Never forget how valuable she is, and how much she brings to the marriage because of a fight. Never fail to cherish and appreciate her for her value.
3. TREAT HER AS MUCH AS YOU VALUE YOURSELF, AND EVEN MORE
We’ve all been through those moments where we messed up and were disappointed in ourselves, but we quickly moved on from it and forgave ourselves. In short, we love ourselves and want the best for ourselves in spite of our shortcomings. It should be the same with her too.
4. ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GOOD IMPACT SHE HAS HAD IN YOUR LIFE
Over the years or months, your wife must have had a huge impact in your life, in one way or the other. It’s easy to forget this when you’re having a fight and you just can’t stand her. But you ought to remember that she’s still that same woman who has been there for you even when others wouldn’t.
5. ALWAYS REMEMBER THE LOVE YOU HAVE PROFESSED
You can’t only love her during the good and rosy times; you ought to love her during the bad times as well. You ought to remember that you once promised to love her always — and that promise shouldn’t die because of a single fight.
Loving your wife in that difficult moment is the best proof that you love her. It’s easy to love her when things are rosy and going smoothly, but it’s in those difficult times that you actually show whether you love her or not.
ViV