It’s time to be brutally honest. There are several bitter truths about relationships every single lady must know if they seek to have a healthy and happy relationship.
Check them out below
1. DON’T CONFUSE SEX WITH LOVE
The problem with this generation is that people now confuse sex with love. Just because he had sex with you doesn’t mean he loves you. So before you give him your body, be sure he loves you. Don’t assume he loves you because he had sex with you.
2. JUST BECAUSE HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU DOESN’T MEAN HE DOES
Just because he says he loves you doesn’t mean he does. Pay more attention to his actions and less attention to his words. If he truly loves you, his actions would prove it.
3. HAVING A BABY WITH HIM WON’T MAKE HIM LOVE YOU
Don’t assume having a baby with him would make him want a serious relationship with you. Having a baby with a man won’t make him love you so avoid using having a child for him as a leverage.
4. LEARN TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH
I see young ladies forcing themselves on a man even after knowing he isn’t attracted to them. If he states he doesn’t love you or want you no more, accept it and move on. Forcing yourself on him will only make you look cheap. Learn to protect your pride and move on.
5. LOVE YOURSELF
You have to love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you will end up settling for less and hurting yourself. When you love yourself, you will know when it’s time to quit an unhealthy relationship and move on. When you love yourself, you will know what you want out of a relationship.
Phil