When a woman has agreed to bed you for the first time especially and takes off her clothing, she’s at this point most vulnerable; so what you say and how you react can go a long way in making her feel comfortable or uncomfortable.
It’s important to know that certain topics should be left out at that moment; else you would ruin the mood.
1. YOU’VE ADDED WEIGHT
No lady loves to hear she’s fat, especially when she’s naked in front of you for the first time. To her, this could mean you find her unattractive.
2. YOU LOOK DIFFERENT WITH YOUR CLOTHS ON
This is also another harsh thing to say to a naked lady; this is probably worst than the first. Such words would ruin her confidence and esteem for a very long time; she could consider herself as one with a terrible body.
3. YOU HAVE STRETCH MARKS
Stretch marks are unattractive, and if she has stretch marks, she would also be aware of it. Reminding her of marks on her body, especially the first time would definitely make her feel awkward.
4. DON’T YOU WAX?
If you want to talk to her about the hairs on her body, there is a better way to go about it, and it’s definitely not on the first day or when she’s naked.
5. YOU SHOULD CONSIDER SHAVING
Some women love to keep a neat low shave around their woman part, while some others don’t. Some men love it neatly shaved, others don’t. If you find the hairs undesirable, find a subtle way to tell her and definitely not when she’s naked.
Sometimes, words leaves scars on the mind, deeper than a sharp blade would leave on a skin; admire her body when she’s naked and if you have something not too nice to say, it should never be when she’s naked.
ViV