There is a big difference when you date a man who loves you and treats you right and when you are with a man who doesn’t treat you right.
When in a relationship with a jerk, your psychology and mentality is somewhat forced backwards, and you might probably lose sight of who you really are.
However, dating a man who truly cares about you and treats you right can change a lot of things; dating this kind of man would make you realise that you have been enduring a relationship with someone who doesn’t deserve you.
Below are some of the things you realise from the man who treats you right:
1. YOU FEEL VALUED
Being in a relationship with an uncaring man would make you feel intimidated and insecure; instead of feeling valued, you would rather feel under-appreciated; all through the relationship you would find yourself striving to feel valued by your man and it wouldn’t happen. However, when with a man who treats you right, you would feel valued, you would feel appreciated and you would feel truly loved.
2. YOUR CONFIDENCE SKYROCKETS
You might lose your confidence and self-esteem when with a man who doesn’t treat you right. But if you’re with a man who appreciates you and treats you right, your confidence soars because of the fact that you feel truly valued.
3. YOU FEEL GOOD EVEN WITH YOUR FLAWS
When with a man who doesn’t appreciate you, he makes you feel ridiculed and uses your flaws against you. But the case is different with a man who treats you right; he makes you feel great even with your flaws.
4. YOU WOULD BE HAPPY
Your happiness is never guaranteed when in a relationship with a man who doesn’t treat you right; happiness would be a distant feeling. But if you’re in a relationship with that special man, you feel happy to be in the relationship; you would have more smiles than frowns.
5. YOU WOULDN’T EVEN HAVE TO DO MUCH
When with a man who doesn’t treat you right, you would try to do so much but to no avail; no matter what you do and how you do it, your man won’t still appreciate you. But the case is different when with that man who loves you and treats you right; you would feel appreciated without even having to do much.
Being with a man who doesn’t treat you right would only raise your stress level. Does your man treat you right?
ViV