3. EVEN IF SHE DID THE CHASING…
Even if the side chic did the chasing, your man had every opportunity to choose if to have an affair with her or not. If he chose to cheat on you with a lady because she wants him then it’s his fault because he wasn’t forced into the affair and didn’t exercise enough maturity to do the right thing — which is to stick to his lady.
4. THERE WOULD STILL BE SO MANY OTHER LADIES
There are lots of women in this world, and so many would also get attracted to your man; women somehow get attracted to a man that’s in a relationship and even one that’s married, so how many would you go on fighting? That lady is nowhere near the problem; your man wanted a piece of her cake and she obliged.
5. YOUR MAN DIDN’T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH
Every man should show his lady respect, and one way he can do that is by being faithful. Faithfulness shows that your man respects your feelings enough not to hurt it, and cheating on you just shows he totally doesn’t respect your feelings, especially if he repeatedly cheats on you. So, you can’t blame the side chic for your man’s failings.
Blaming and fighting the side chic is like cutting the branch of a tree and expecting the tree to wither off; if you can’t take off the roots then that tree would keep on growing.
I hate it when two ladies have to fight themselves over a man who would still go on flirting.
Shawn