It’s a relationship sin to remain stagnant in your relationship. People carry their flaws from one relationship to another and make mistakes from one relationship to another. This happens because they don’t tend to learn and be better in their relationships.
Always seek to be better in your relationship, and these are some reasons you should.
1. YOU BECOME A BETTER PARTNER
When you better yourself in a relationship, you tend to become a better partner overall. When you learn from your mistakes and improve yourself, you would become a better partner than you were before — and this should be your goal, rather than to be stagnant.
2. YOU REDUCE YOUR FLAWS
When you become a better partner with each day, that is when you better yourself in your relationship, your flaws tend to reduce.
There is no perfect relationship partner, but you should reduce your flaws rather than carrying the same character flaws from one relationship to another.
3. YOU ENJOY A BETTER RELATIONSHIP
You enjoy a better relationship when you learn to be a better partner; you would learn to handle situations better, and your relationship would be better too. Understanding would be present, as well as peace and love when you become better in your relationship.
4. YOUR PARTNER WOULD BECOME MORE INTERESTED IN YOU
When you are stagnant in your relationship, your partner’s interest in you could become stagnant too. But when your partner gets to see a better version of you every day, your partner would become more interested in you.
5. YOUR PARTNER WOULD BECOME BETTER TOO
You can rub off on your partner when you become better in your relationship. Being a better you would excite your partner into being better too, and sometimes your partner would subconsciously get better because you got better.
It’s a taboo to remain the same in anywhere you find yourself in life, and it’s an even bigger taboo to be stagnant in your relationship.
Shawn