I previously worked on an article 9 signs the woman you are dating is a keeper, highlighting some signs that every woman worth being called a ‘keeper’ should possess.
In that article I described a keeper as a lady every man so desires to meet. There are different kinds of ladies men meet out there but a keeper is what men refer to as a lady that they should keep in their life.
Before you get to meet a keeper, you might come across so many ladies that aren’t worth keeping. One thing that baffles me is that a lot of men come across that woman that’s a keeper and still don’t regard her, losing her in the process, and it is important to note that you wouldn’t have such a lady at the stamp of your feet.
If you have a keeper as your lady, I’d share with you 5 reasons you shouldn’t let go of that lady, and if you don’t have a keeper, I’d share with you 5 reasons you should date a keeper.
1. YOU CAN HAVE A FUTURE WITH HER
There is nothing better than being in a relationship with someone you can build your future with; someone who loves you for who you are and not for some certain gains; this is kind of person a keeper is. At a young age you might not understand the importance of being with this kind of woman but at a more mature age, a man would definitely understand that he needs a keeper kind of woman in his life.
2. YOU WOULD HAVE TRUST
Trust is also another major reason to date a keeper; so many men are in relationships where their heart plays a game of badminton on a regular basis because they have a lady that they don’t trust. With a keeper, this is not the case, she’s a faithful woman and she gives you no reason to lose trust in her. You would agree with me that trust is one trait that’s needed for a relationship to be successful.
3. YOU WILL ENJOY THE RELATIONSHIP
That joy of being in a relationship where your lady understands every bit of you and supports you in a way no one has is one that can’t be quantified, and that’s the kind of woman a keeper is. So when you date a keeper with all her extraordinary qualities, there is this indescribable joy that you have.She is the kind of woman most men pray to have.
4. SHE’S RARE
You won’t always have that opportunity to meet a woman that’s a keeper; you aren’t the only man in the world, so even if there are a hundred million women out there that can be called a keeper, there are more than times five the number of men out there who also wants her. The keeper kind of woman is rare, she’s gold; so if you have that kind of a woman, you ought to keep her or you might rue your decision if you let her go.
5. PEACE OF MIND
If you have ever dated a lady and had little or no rest of mind then you would absolutely appreciate a relationship where you would have peace of mind, and a keeper is a lady that would give you that peace of mind in a relationship; she’s understanding, faithful, not a complainer or a competitor, and with all her qualities your peace in that relationship is rest assured.
If there is only one advice I can give, it is that you should never take your lady for granted if she’s a keeper; you might regret that decision for a long time.
Shawn