The biggest killer of a relationship isn’t lack of love; it has to be immaturity. Immaturity encompasses everything that kills a relationship; most relationships wouldn’t have faded away if the man could have shown a bit more maturity.
Most times immaturity has little to do with age but it has more to do with the mind. Perception, beliefs and even action are all conceived in the mind.
A man’s act can make a relationship worthwhile or make it crash or have issues continually. Maturity is an essential tool for the success of every relationship; if exhibited in most relationships, break ups and its lot could just be a thing of the past.
Love without maturity is like a child without home training. This is a must read for every guy.
1. SELF-CENTREDNESS
Nothing would kill a lady’s feeling for her man faster than when he always thinks of himself first before every other value in a relationship. The ‘me’ attitude is one that would take a relationship to the cleaners; no lady wants this and not every lady can survive this immature act. Self-centredness kills every essence of a relationship and must be let go of in order for a relationship to succeed.
2. UNWILLINGNESS TO APOLOGISE
Relationships should never be a war zone; “I am sorry” are three words that can take you where “I love you” won’t. Apologising doesn’t make you any less than a man; the ability to apologise makes you a more mature person but a lack of it shows the presence of immaturity. Sometimes, an apology is all a lady needs from her man to make peace exist.
3. NOT LEARNING FROM MISTAKES
The fact that a lady wants her man to be apologetic when he’s wrong doesn’t mean she would like it when he keeps making same mistakes over and over again. A man should always learn from a previous mistake; it takes maturity for a man to make a mistake and learn from it.
4. FLIRTING
I’m pretty sure every lady wants a man who would be hundred percent faithful to her; a cheating nature is a sign of immaturity and faithfulness comes with a lot of maturity. A man’s ability to keep to his promise of faithfulness takes a lot of maturity; cheating nature is what most ladies detest.
5. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
A regular follower of articles on this site would know how much domestic violence is being criticised here; beating a lady would never make you a man; what would actually make you a man is the ability to control yourself when such crazy mood comes up. There is no gain in domestic violence; hitting a lady just shows how little you value her and it’s just a total show of immaturity.
Shawn