Sometimes, men try to always pass this message of them being in control at all times to ladies; our male ego hide so many things we do that only if the ladies knew…they would chuckle within them.
Picture a lady going on a date probably for the first time with a man who she truly likes; deep within there are so many unsolved puzzles that goes through her mind. Funny enough, the lady isn’t the only one that’s facing this reality check (unknown to her).
Men also do some funny things before such a date— join me smile through this as I reveal some of the things we also face before such a special date.
1. PONDER ON WHAT TO WEAR
If you think only ladies ponder on what to wear before a date then you might be mistaken; every man wants the lady he likes to find him attractive as well, so he ponders on what to wear for quite a while before going for his best option.
2. STARE AT THE MIRROR
Ladies, if you think the mirror is meant for just you then you might actually be deluded—you need to see the man going on a date with a lady he likes, he stares at himself in a mirror just to be sure he’s looking perfect. It’s funny that men castigate women for time spent in front of a mirror, but we also do this too on special occasions.
3. WONDER IF SHE’D FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE
Ladies aren’t the only one caught up on whether the man would find them attractive; I’m not even sure who do this more because men are also caught up in this scenario. Would she like me? Would she see me as the perfect gentleman? Would she think I’m unattractive? Questions like these also run through a man’s mind.
4. THE RIGHT LINES TO SAY
This is where the man’s job becomes even more difficult; ladies expect the man to have the right words to say and the right conversations too; this would even add more tension to the way the man feels. So before he goes to meet her, his mind is already bundled with what do I say? How do I make her smile? What are the best things to discuss and the best lines to use? How can I tease her? And lots more.
5. PRACTICE THINGS
When he knows it’s a lady he actually likes, consciously or unconsciously a man sees himself practicing so many weird things like even how to give a cute smile, how to walk confidently and even the right way to talk. Being a man isn’t an easy job after all.
So ladies, when next you’re preparing for that date with a man that you really like (and he likes you too), you should know that you aren’t the only one caught up in so many weird and funny things. Women also make men do funny things.