In trying to get a second date, many people make huge mistakes during their first date which ruin their chances of having a second date thereby cutting the relationship short.
If you always seem not to have a second date with that cool dude or chic you like, you might have to review the way you approach a date.
Below are first dating mistakes sabotaging your love life
1. YOU TALK ABOUT YOURSELF TOO MUCH
Quit talking too much about yourself during a first date as this can make you seem arrogant or egotistical. If you never seem to have a second date, you might want to check yourself and find out if you talk too much. Talking too much during a first date shows you care less about what your date thinks and cares about. Avoid talking too much and learn to do as much listening as you do talking during a first date.
2. YOU DON’T ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS
Not asking the right questions can also ruin your chances of having a second date. Avoid asking pointless and annoying questions. Asking questions doing a first date is an important way of getting to know your date and you need to make sure you do this in a fun and enjoyable way. Try asking the right questions and talking about things that are of interest to your date.
3. YOU DON’T LISTEN
A date is between two persons so you shouldn’t make it all about you. Not listening during a first date might sabotage your chances of having a second date. Learn to listen without getting distracted when your date is talking. Never interrupt your date while your date is talking and make sure your eyes are not wandering around the room as this makes you look uninterested.
4. YOU ARE NOT GENUINE
Misleading your date by trying to make yourself look good might also sabotage your chances of having a second date. Be yourself and avoid saying things just to please your date. Impress your date by being sincere instead of bragging and being insincere.
5. YOU HAVE A POOR BODY LANGUAGE
Having the right body language is important if you want to have a second date. The way you smile, laugh, make eye contact and even your posture tells a lot about you and can make or sabotage your chances of having a second date. Ensure you look confident but avoid being over-confident.
Phil